Will I be a Football Widow this Thanksgiving?

Published November 24, 2010
There is nothing that trumps a traditional Thanksgiving dinner, especially shared by the company of friends and family. What could be more fun and stimulating than to share our bounty of yummy food and engage in great conversation at the dining table? Now, some of you may not understand or sympathize with me about the other Thanksgiving tradition that totally drives me to distraction: the blare of cacophonous football emanating from our big screen television. It draws our loving company like a magnet. I end up feeling neglected and abandoned by the folks I don't get to see very often, and pretty darned annoyed, to be perfectly honest. What makes things even worse is that Hubble, our white Oriental Shorthair also runs off, exiting stage-left from the dining room to join the football fans in front of the huge TV. He totally appears to enjoy that special moment of bonding and actually gets caught up in their excitement. He gets completely absorbed in watching the players scrambling around the field like warriors, just to make a few points. Yawn! And while my husband, Marty, is a dyed-in-the-wool football fan, I don't understand the game at all, which could be the root of my antipathy. But our highly-intelligent cat certainly does. I am sort of getting used to being a football widow. And as I think about it, I always wondered why Hubble left my side during football afternoons. It seems that male bonding is not limited to humans. Interestingly, Hubble has taken to prepare himself for watching football by donning Marty's Giant's hat and Marty is just thrilled he has a fellow fan to hang out with. But on Thanksgiving day, when the Lions are playing, we have a feeling Hubble will be rooting for his kin. Have your cats showed interest in sports on TV? Leave a comment and let us know.
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Jo Singer

Shortly after retiring as a social worker and psychotherapist, I discovered my "writer's voice"…

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Comments (6)

Iniki (Unverified)
No football here. No one is interested. We do play board games like Cat o poly or Horse Opoly or Down on the Farm. :)
Maria (Unverified)
Jo, this post cracked me up! But listen, if you can't beat them, join them! I have no idea how football works but I seriously enjoy the food and beer and making fun of the boys when they scream at the TV :)
jmuhj (Unverified)
I could never live with anyone who likes this game -- sorry! and I could never have it in my home on tv. Sports leave me cold, american football most of all. The best I can say is stay in the kitchen until it's over, yes? ;(
R (Unverified)
I can't relate with the kitties loving sports (although I think it's so cute yours does), but I do agree with the male bonding comment! My male kitty is the same way! He gives special treatment and loves my best friend, who's male. He just loves him and gravitates towards him whenever he' around! I've always noticed that they have a bond thAt I just can't get in on! But it's totally great, I'm glad they have each other--that and I know my male must get tired of all the estrogen in the house from his mommy and his two sisters!
Linda H (Unverified)
Don't get the point of football and don't care to. Thankfully my husband is more of the baseball fan which I can enjoy at times, especially if I go to the game.
Sharon from NY
WoW Jo- you mean I'm NOT the only person who still has NO idea of how the game is played ( and less than no interest either!)? Makes me feel good to know that! My girls have never shown any interest in sports on TV, which my Marty watches (football, hockey and baseball mostly) I hope that, football notwithstanding, you and your family and friends have a LOVELY Thanksgiving Day!