Why do Some People Hate Cats?

Published March 27, 2012

Fear is probably at the root of many people's cat hatred.

Whenever I meet someone who professes a hatred of cats, no matter how hard I try to understand why they feel this way, I can only justify a handful of reasons their prejudice and revulsion toward the species is so deeply ingrained.

Cat haters may have had a scary experience with a kitty as a child. Since fear is at the root of hatred, it’s highly likely these unfortunate folks have never been properly introduced to the species that cat lovers consider purrfect companions. 

On the other hand, since heredity plays a part in the way we behave, ailurophobes may simply be devoid of the cat-loving gene.

Many of these folks go to great lengths to stay as far away from a feline as possible. They claim cats are sneaky, aloof and manipulative. Since cats have the reputation of being independent, they are often thought of as self-centered, disloyal and very difficult to train. Some feel that cats aren’t real pets; they are merely acquaintances.

In fact, in the presence of a cat, a true ailurophobe, out of sheer terror of a tiny predator may start shaking, have difficulty breathing and break into a sweat.

Of course there is a considerable difference between someone who is feline-phobic and those who dislike cats in general. Some, however, since they are so cute and cuddly, enjoy playing with kittens. It is only when they mature into adults that they are no longer admired. I just cannot wrap my brain around how anyone who claims to love animals wouldn’t immediately fall in love with a kitty. After all, in some societies cats have even been worshipped as gods.

Since many cat haters love dogs, perhaps the cat’s misunderstood nature is somehow threatening to them.  As “pack animals”, evolving from wolves, domesticated dogs are social in nature and readily fit into our human hierarchy.  They are often referred to as “mans’ best friend,”and considered easy to control.

On the other hand cats in the wild are generally solitary hunters, (with the exception of lions), raise their young alone, and interact with other cats mainly for breeding. Since education about cats is so important, understanding feline behavior can lead to a true appreciation of this incredible species.

But one thing I know about folks that loudly profess their hatred of cats; the bigger the outcry, the harder they fall. Ask anyone who has once detested kitties, but has converted to the other side, how they feel about their cats. The adoration is truly remarkable.

Have you always adored cats, are you not a fan, or are you a cat-loving convert? Tell us with a comment.

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Jo Singer

Shortly after retiring as a social worker and psychotherapist, I discovered my "writer's voice"…

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Comments (58)

Anonymous (Unverified)
When I was little I used to like cats. I actually really wanted one,and loved to play with my friends cats. However when I was in the 5th grade,my family was moving abroad and we had to stay with my cousin for a couple of weeks. They had several cats,who I liked at first, but started to dislike after a while. I slept in the living room on an air mattress and at night the cats liked to come in and claw my toes while I was asleep. I tried everything to keep my toes tucked under the covers, but at some point in the night my feet would stick out and those claws would come out. When I complained I was told, "they were just being playful." By the end of the two weeks, my toes are bloody shreds and I dislike their cats. I still like cats in general just not those.
Anonymous (Unverified)
Fast forward several years. My sister loves cats, and My mom has brought home on two separate occasions, a cat someone found. Now I was as excited as anyone to get these two as pets and was looking forward to it, but living with these two will make me hate cats. Mainly due to the piss. These two know how to use the litter box,which we keep clean and have more than one of, but instead like to use my room as their toilet. They have gotten up on my bed and pissed and pooped on it. We have had the carpets cleaned, but the room permanently smells of ammonia.
Anonymous (Unverified)
They have both gotten up and peed on clean laundry I have just set on the kitchen table to fold, when a clean litter box is five feet away. The worst situation was when some rain jackets, had fallen to the ground in our coat closet. The cats went in there and peed on the coats, which are water proof. I live in the south where it's pretty warm, so there is no need to wear coats very often,o unbeknownst to me it sat for a while. We were cleaning and I was on the floor scrubbing a baseboard, and my sister picked up a coat and doused me and rancid cat urine. To say I was perturbed, is putting it mildly. When I confronted my sister about it, she put her nose up in the air and said that at least "her cats had the good taste to pick a better place than the corner to go in." My replies that my bed was not a better place fell on deaf ears. They later changed their place to my hat, which I did not discover until someone asked, "what's that smell?"
Anonymous (Unverified)
If I get up to use the bathroom in the middle of the night, one will jump up on my bed and will bite and claw me if I try to get back in the bed or move her off, and I have the scars to prove it.The other one likes to destroy the underside of furniture and climb up inside it and meow constantly. I had to look after another cat for someone while they were on vacation once, and he'd like to jump up on top of things and knock stuff down for fun.He broke several things,before I took down anything higher than a foot off the ground. His owner thought it was funny.
Anonymous (Unverified)
I am not even going to go into the shedding and hairballs.
Anonymous (Unverified)
In writing this I realized that my problem is not necessary with cats, but cats and their owners. If my dog does something wrong I will chastise and rebuke him for it, and eventually he learns. If someone complains about something my dog did, I listen and make a call on how the situation should be handled, like I would my child. However I do believe that as good a friend as my dog is, he is below humans in the totem pole.
Anonymous (Unverified)
Now all cats and owners may not be like this, but this has been my experience. I refuse to date anyone that would even bring a cat into the relationship. In order for me to even consider living with a cat ever again, it would have to be the second coming of cat Christ, b/c it is going to take biblical redemption for the species, as far as I am concerned.