Meeting Animal Lovers Online

Published September 27, 2010
The evening my husband arrived home, carrying a small black leather case containing a black and white Dell notebook, my life would never be the same. Since I was completely computer illiterate, I was skeptical about this contraption sitting on our dining room table. But after looking over Marty's shoulder and watching him dial up onto the Internet, my fascination began to grow. Soon I was exploring cyber-space, discovering lots of animal lovers eager to communicate with like-minded others, to exchange information, resources and support. In no time at all, I ran across an old cat-breeder friend with whom I had no contact with in many years. It was delightful to catch up. The sound bite, "You've got mail" was music to my ears. Shortly we purchased our first upgrade to a more powerful and faster computer with a color monitor and all the necessary bells and whistles. As friendships developed, using Instant messages, message boards and email, getting to know the folks with intriguing screen names often led to chatting on the phone. Sometimes even real-life meetings ensued. In fact, we wouldn't have moved to central Florida, if I hadn't met my friend Rani online. Rani is a super talented artist, low-carb cook extraordinaire and naturally an avid cat lover. So when the opportunity arose, it made perfect sense to share a delightful visit with her during our Florida vacation, 10 years ago. About four years ago, shortly after Barbaro, the late great racehorse, was fatally injured - I posted a prayer for his recovery. Vicki, a passionate dog lover and avid horse-racing enthusiast responded by extending a gracious welcome. Soon we were chatting online and the phone for hours, sharing our love for horses, cats and dogs. We became best friends, even though we had not yet met. For years we longed to get together, and just a few weeks ago we made it happen! Vicki invited us to spend a few days at their lovely Tennessee home. Meeting her family, her beautiful horses and the dogs I heard barking in the background during our almost daily phone calls finally became a reality. Vicki and her family treated us like royalty for our all-too-short stay. Their form of southern hospitality must be infectious because even Ellie Mae, their affectionate and comical three year-old St. Bernard, slept in front of our bedroom door each night, guarding us from any possible danger. My online life has brought me gifts that I will treasure forever. Have you had any online encounters that are special to you? Tell us by leaving a comment.
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Jo Singer

Shortly after retiring as a social worker and psychotherapist, I discovered my "writer's voice"…

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Comments (6)

Elaine (Unverified)
I "met" a lady online when I was searching ancestry information on one grandmother who was born in Sweden. This lady in Sweden offered to help, and help she did over the following few months. During that time, we "talked" and got to know each other a bit. She is absolutely the dearest, sweetest lady, and I now cherish the friendship we have developed over cyberspace, which I am fortunate that we are continuing in spite of the fact that I am finished with genealogy searching in that area. She is almost 73, as I, and although I would hope that someday we could meet in person, based on several things, I don't think that will happen.
Iniki (Unverified)
Oh yeah! That is how we met and became cyber-sisters! It is a wonderful feeling to have a sister just an email or IM away. We made a dynamic Chat Host duo too. LOL Lots of great memories and friends. I can also say that I gained a cyber-sister during a chat when a timid chatter asked me for advice about her kitten with a heart murmur. Now 12 years later we are as close as sisters can be and that kitten? He lives with me now. My first Maine Coon!! :)
Anonymous
I have been privileged to "know" Jo for many years although I've never met her. We first became acquainted through the Pets community on AOL years ago and when my Mom collapsed and subsequently passed away almost five years ago, she was so supportive and assisted me in finding a new home for my Mom's cat, Benny, in less than a day. (I lived in the Boston area at the time and my Mom was in FL and I didn't want to subject Benny to not only a new life but a new climate as well.) It brings tears to my eyes every time I think of how Jo responded and helped me. I heard from Benny's new "person" a couple of weeks ago, along with a photo, to let me know that he had formed a strong attachment to her elderly father and was, in effect, a "care" cat for him. Benny made her father's life richer in his last years.
jmuhj (Unverified)
Echoing Reno's thought above ;) and yes, as with most people these days, internet relationships comprise most of my good friendships, and I have over a thousand friends here, most of whom are confirmed cat lovers (the others just haven't discussed the subject with me). Some have evolved into more than virtual friendships, with phone calls, cards and gifts exchanged, and that sort of thing. The one thing that would make the experience even better is finding some LOCAL friends!and maybe even that special someone. ;)
Reno (Unverified)
I have met some wonderful people online as well. Jo, I count you as one of them.......
Nadine (Unverified)
We have a couple of things in common. I'm also a big lover of dogs and cats. And, although I haven't been in touch with her for many years, Rani Merens is a big part of my life. I've been low-carbing for about 13 years, and my recipe files are filled with her wonderful recipes. I don't know if I'd have been able to continue with my low-carb way of life without them, and without the hints and tips I got from her. She won't remember me, but anyway, please tell her Nadine said thank you.