Home After College: A Hero's Welcome

Published June 7, 2011

Ryan Karpusiewicz

The two goldens, Shenanigans (left) and Shamrock (right) and the Jack Russel mixed breed, Bean.

Moving home: it’s what every recent college graduate fears. And for me? Well, for me it’s a reality. Despite the excitement of being reunited with my family, I’m not looking forward to an extended stay. How long will I be stranded?  Will I ever escape the nest?

Before I even open the door to my Orange County New York home, I can hear the howls of the trio of pups my veterinary technician mother has taken in. When the door does swing open, the two golden retrievers and Jack Russell mixed breed terrier (Shamrock, Shenanigans, and Bean respectively) stand at the top of the stairs, tails wagging in utter jubilation—a welcome fit for a hero, or a king.

In all my life (brief though it has been), I have never met anyone or anything more excited for me to walk into a room.

Even though it’s been months since I’ve seen them, my pets unfailingly recognize me and, by their show of affection, love me. The love, present in the licks, the ill-advised jumping (I like to think of it as hugging) and the incessant howling, is completely and utterly unconditional.

When my two brothers and I aren’t at home, my mother tells us stories of how the animals get on their hind legs when she says one of our names, looking and pointing with their snouts at our high school portraits, which hang on the wall in our hallway. Intuitively, it seems, the dogs miss our physical presence.

When we arrive home it all pours out of them. They relax after a bit of excited whimpering, but the chorus continues for a good five to ten minutes before they even attempt to calm down. I believe they genuinely missed me. I know I missed them.

Pets are a part of what “home” means as much as the physical foundation of a house. There is no better feeling than being appreciated and loved wholly and unconditionally by your pet—possibly not even the feeling of landing a full-time job complete with big city apartment, right out of school (not that I’d know).

No, my welcoming committee convinces me that finally I’m home again and that, despite my reservations, it’s a good thing… for now.

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Ryan Karpusiewicz Ryan Karpusiewicz is the Editorial Assistant, Lifestyle, for Digital Works @ NBC U, whose main…

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Anonymous (Unverified)

true
even animals like cows,donkey and the like, if you treat them well, they will respond with so much love. i used to see my grandma's cat waiting for her at the gate back in the village everytime she went to the market. when grandma got home, that is the time you see the cat running around her and wagging her tail to get attention. her cows too would respond back when they notice her presence by mowing lowly. it used to be a sight to behold.